Moms love unconditionally.
Moms are patient.
Moms know what’s best.
Moms know how to make skinned knees feel better.
Moms have eyes in the back of their head they know what you’re up to before you do.
Moms forgive.
Moms encourage.
I started to make this list of things Moms have a great knack for doing. I know Moms aren’t always perfect but we remember them with fond memories of our childhood of always being there when we needed them the most. Moms have a special relationship with their children more so than Dads I think when it comes to nurturing and caring for their children. Children will always seem to turn to the Mom. The bond is strong between them whether she’s the traditional stay-at-home Mom or if she works outside of the home. Moms really can do it all. They just seem to find the inner strength to juggle all the roles of mother and homemaker. The children still yearn for the kind of maternal affirmation only a mother can provide. I recall that with my own mother and now see it between my wife and son. And so Moms will always carry that role of providing the emotional support their children need in order to face the challenges of life as they grow older.
The list of things Moms do well for their children may seem to just apply to childhood, especially the part about them having eyes in the back of their head. But as I look at the list I realize the mothering instincts didn’t stop once we grew up. As we grew older and then left the home hopefully we started to appreciate them more for the ways they continually encouraged and supported us. As we matured into adulthood our relationship also matured as we interacted with our Moms as adults and the relationship went from mother/child and became something of a mutual friendship as well. That friendship was a new dimension that I always appreciated with my Mom. She’s always supported and encouraged me even when I haven’t always kept in touch on a regular basis.
But we never want to let go of the nurturing our mothers provide us even as we age. It’s a lesson of grace and love passed down to us that we can strive for ourselves. Amen to that.
From Pastor Mark’s Heart
May 10, 2015
Suffering has dominated the headlines this past week. Whether it was the devastating 7.8 magnitude earthquake in Nepal that has claimed over 6,000 lives and 130,000 homes or the massive protests occurring in Baltimore as well as other cities, the news cycle has had no shortage of heart-wrenching messages to deliver. So much so that the disgusting work of ISIS in the Middle East continuing to murder, kidnap, rape, torture, and sell fellow human beings has gone largely unmentioned.
It’s easy to despair in situations like these. I’m not sure what kind of person you are, but I’m a pessimist and a realist at heart. My first thoughts upon hearing terrible news like Nepal or Freddie Gray is to ask God, “Lord, why did this have to happen? When are these things gonna change?” And it’s really easy for me to get down and feel like there’s nothing I can do to change the world. What can I do to help people thousands of miles away who have literally lost everything they own and have no idea where their next meal is coming from or where they will sleep tonight? What can I do to break down a system of racism and indifference towards people of a certain color and socioeconomic background that has been established by the very political and social infrastructure of this country? What can I do to change the world?
One answer is – not much. As an individual, there’s not a lot that this simple man can do. I have no power. I have no authority. I can barely manage my own life – how am I supposed to fix anyone else’s?
But there’s another answer to that question if we call ourselves Christians. And that answer is to save the world. As Christians, we believe in a living God who loves His creation and desires for the reconciliation and restoration of all things. We believe in a God who will “wipe every tear from [our] eyes” (Revelation 7:17). We believe in a God who commands us to “not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Philippians 4:6). We believe in a God who says that “whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me” (Matthew 25:40). This is the God we follow, this is the God who will save this world.
Education will not save this world. We are more educated now than we have ever been. Politics will not save this world. Look at the rise and fall of all the empires, political movements, and even the current state of affairs in the United States to see what politics has done to improve the world. There is literally nothing that can save this world from itself other than the redeeming, restoring, reconciling, revealing love of Jesus Christ evidenced by the cross.
Of all the news coverage I saw online of the chaos going on in Baltimore, one of the most striking was when a reporter asked a pastor who was surveying the aftermath of his church’s community service buildings being burned down, “What do you see?” And the pastor replied “I see revival. I see the opportunity to rebuild from the ashes. I see a Church that's been resilient… I see us coming back even bigger and better than before.” This is who we are. We are the church. We are literally the body of the resurrected Christ in the world today. We are the ones who bring the kingdom of heaven wherever we go. We are the ones who have the power of the Holy Spirit flowing out of us to touch the lives of everyone we know. This is who we are. The task we have is clearer today than ever before. Will we meet the challenge?
There is a Jewish proverb that states, “I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders.” Thank God for the shoulders of Jesus Christ that were broad enough to be stretched upon a cross for our sins. Thank God for the shoulders of the church that are broad enough to be stretched across the world to save it. Thank God for our shoulders that, though they may seem small, are doing what God has given us the strength to do, whether it be to give sacrificially, pray unceasingly, and love inconveniently.
From Pastor David’s Heart
May 3, 2015